This was easily one of the more meaningful and unique events I went to last year. Living library events have been gaining popularity over the past few years, with a few public library systems launching similar programs. I’ve been meaning to check one out for a while now, so when an opportunity arose, this was a no-brainer. As luck would have it, I saw the posting half an hour before the deadline to submit an application to be a human book and while I always meant to participate as a “borrower”, coincidences like this are too much temptation for me to resist, so I raced to complete the application and managed to hit “submit” with only a couple of minutes to spare. Imagine my surprise when I got accepted to be a “human book”!
When the event itself rolled around, I didn’t quite know what to expect but going with the flow is the one thing I’m finally learning how to do fairly well. I needn’t have worried about a thing. The event was very well organized and all its elements functioned together perfectly. Seriously, a job well done through and through.
For starters, the location couldn’t be any better. Set in a grand hall and steeped in history, this truly felt like a “library”. The organizers took care of all the details – advanced registrations for people wishing to sign out “books”, event promotion, bio print-outs for walk-ins, a thoughtful layout (in an open room, there was actually relative privacy for each participant thanks to strategic furniture placement), a fantastic lunch (free for everyone, including “borrowers”), gifts for speakers, and three staff/volunteers looking after us throughout the day. The organizers did a great job ensuring each “book” was signed out at least 2-3 times throughout the day, and filling any empty spots skillfully.
Despite a great level of organization, the event was not in any way, shape or form stuffy. The atmosphere was friendly and relaxed, and the entire process was easy for all parties involved. The range of speakers was truly impressive (many were older and there were quite a few wild stories to be told!) but what surprised me most was the attitude of the “borrowers”. Most of these were UofT students and some were sent for conversational practice by their English language teachers. However, there was not a trace of the “whatever” attitude associated with the younger generation. Every single person I came across was genuinely interested in the stories and I was caught off guard and truly touched by the feeling of having helped someone see things differently and feel better about making difficult decisions.
And there was more than one someone! In fact, some conversations got incredibly personal and the people got very emotional. I heard stories of struggle in deciding to pursue personal interests or appease demanding families, giving up on dreams, finding the courage to do something for themselves, being paralyzed by fear over making a wrong decision, and so many more. The unexpected part for me was seeing someone’s whole outlook change and some of the fear fall away when I described my own process and outcomes. Suddenly, the worst case scenario wasn’t so scary. I don’t consider myself an expert by any stretch of the imagination but I’ve spent the last couple of years taking chances and learning to fail. As it turns out, these experiences are useful to others. You really never know when you might touch somebody’s life and this was an unexpected and surprising way to do so. If you have a chance to participate in this event as a “human book” or as an attendee, go! Without hesitation, go.
WHAT: Living Library Project 2013
WHERE: Great Hall, Hart House, University of Toronto
WHEN: November 26, 2013 – 11:00am-3:00pm
COST: Free
INSIDER TIPS: If you can participate in this experience, I highly recommend it. What’s more, I recommend signing up to be a human book. While it is organized by the University of Toronto, it is not limited to students and faculty, so don’t be shy to volunteer. Everybody has a story and I had a fabulous time sharing what I’ve learned with some eager ears. In fact, some were genuinely affected and inspired by what’s just ordinary life to me, which was really touching.
Hart House entrance at University of Toronto
Inside the Great Hall at Hart House
The room is set and ready for human books and their “readers”
The wonderful sight of people “reading” human books
A great lunch spread for all the participants
Yum!